Being a sports junkie I found that after my playing days had passed by, I increasingly missed being involved in the sports I loved. To help with this situation, I started to participate in officiating. It started with my main sport of hockey about ten years ago and then that has passed that last three seasons to the hardest officiating I have ever done: being a Pop Warner Football official.
This blog isn't meant to be any sort of war stories, or an amusing interaction with people - but mainly as a list of observations/comments that I see as a disturbing trend in our youth sports today. Many of us that follow or participate in this blog love sports and have children that will hopefully soon be as interested in sports as you are.
Observations of a Youth Football Official
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A large majority of youth officials come from community based professions. In my group of officials, we are dominated mostly by teachers, school administrators, firefighters, and law enforcement. We all share the love of the game of football.
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The younger the child, the more the parents care about who "wins" than the child. I officiate Pop Warner kids from the age of 5 to the age of 15. I have come to find that the younger the age group - the parents get more difficult to handle. When a child is learning the game from the age of 5 to 9, it is our job to make sure that they are safe, and that they have a good time playing. Officials understand that throwing flags at this level will make our kids bored to play, and they quickly lose interest. I've found that kids lose interest when their parents are screaming at the officials about a neutral zone violation, or that little Johnny grabbed a jersey 20 yards away from the ball. We understand that the children are our key to being still able to officiate a sport we love in the future.
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Officials take making mistakes very, very hard. Officials unfortunately are still human. We beat ourselves up over the inadvertent whistle that causes a game to change, or that call we missed that led to a major game change.
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Parents treat Saturday like Sunday NFL. This is the worst offense I have seen in my years officiating. I have seen parents drag their kids off by the facemask while screaming at them how much they "suck" at football, or how could they drop that pass or fumble that ball. It is important to teach kids to play to win and be successful. It is MORE important to teach a child to always give their best, and to treat setbacks as learning points to acheive more in the future.
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Blaming the officials to make it 'OK' to lose. I hear this more and more each year. "We were robbed by the officials" "We were cheated" "Home team brought their own refs" This is the wrong thing to teach children. I have never met any official that I have worked with that contains any bias towards a particular team or child. We do our best on every play to make sure we have a fair, and FUN, game.
Thank you for reading my thoughts on something that is very important to our children, and hopefully if anyone does any of these things, you now see a little bit into the other side of the ball.